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We can't avoid it. We may not aware of it but some of our words can directly or suddenly can hurt someone's heart, the deliverance is at a different blow..naay di katulog because grabe kasakit atoa gipanulti or naay nainsulto ug nahiubos kaayo sa atoa pinulungan.
Honestly, sometimes i think ana sad ko...( buangon!!! ) Arrgg..kasakit ba aron na word. Buangon dyod una gitubag sa akoa konsensiya dahh...heheehe...apil-apil mag tubag while i'm writing this topic hahahaah) we both know na usahay kining atoa dila kay hait pa ni sa mga branded na kutsilyo na naa sa Handyman Store heheehe. pirting haita.
I remember naay nasakitan sa akoa response na "Wag na" in one instance..tsk tsk tsk..kay kani laging mga tawo na nicare nato sensitive dyod kaayo sa atoa response. Motabang ta tog encode nako nakalitan kog tubag na "Wag na" hastang pagkagabii kadawat nakog text na nahiubos siya. Hasta dyod pinangayuay nakog sorry kuwang nalang akoa luparon ang ilaha bisan tungang gabii na.
See what i mean? .. Of course, we may feel sorry afterwards...worst dyod kanang di dyod kabantay nakapasakit na diay ta by just a mere sentence that came in our mouth.
But if we find that we truly do care about an individual's feelings, despite the fact that it will take us to eat our pride, then we may admit our fault and ask forgiveness to the people we hurt...it will surely help ease their painful process.
Kay if di ta mag-sorry kay lagi bilib kaayo ta sa atoa pagkabagag nawong usahay heehehe that person is undoubtedly going to feel rejected, and they will feel we don't value them. It is usually causing the person any anger or sorrow that prolongs to an emotional discussion in which kung pasagdaan lang magkadako ang bikil.
So how do you cope up with them after nato napasakitan ug sulti? and remain considerate of their feelings? I think first, we should be sure to do it face to face..tell them how sorry we are or some words like "I'm really stupid, I'm sorry i hurt you" mao nang giingon na eat your pride style ba hehehe.. Ikaduha pwede sad any other means other than a face to face chat.. text them, call them, send them a sorry note..di ba? Dili lang dyod ta mag-expect ug rush forgiveness kay dili sayon masakitan di ba? It's like hell and what the hell can we expect that the people we hurt too much dali-dali lag ngisi natog balik? or kung ningisi man gani siguro na kaliton tag kagat ana. Nasakitan gud heheehe.
Appearing face to face is actually difficult for both parties but at least you are showing the individual that your time together has meant something...that you value them, that you care for them. that she/he means something, and that overall, you care about their well-being. Pagpahiubos tawon kung nakasala ka and humble yourself to the people you care. Ayaw nang abi kay pinangga ka modako na'g imong sungay ug magsalig ka. Ayaw pakita nako kay ako'y dapog nimo heheheeh!
Pride? Iluwa na uy...maong nang reason usahay na nagminahalay na ang kadaghanan mabungkag lang kay gipalabi ang pride. Always humble yourself but not too much kay ikaw nasad niya ang tapakan.
Breath with love and care, with principles, with capacity to help, ease someones pain even for a moment and serve the others with your clean heart. In this we may find joy... and even if the world will turn their back on you...who cares? in your heart you know you love...you love truly with humility na kung makasakit kag feelings to the other people you have always the guts to ask for forgiveness.
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